Thursday, February 12, 2009

Give faith a fighting chance.

I am such a silly billy. There I was, yesterday, starting to think it was all doom and gloom all over again. Faith is what some people throw away at first sight of fear, but bet cha did not realise that a little of it can go a long way.

I went to see my mum's regular GP yesterday afternoon about her giddyness lately. Initially we thought it was heat related, or maybe her daily dosage of medication was overworking. When the doc heard the word 'facial', she immediately said "Orrh! I know what is it."

Turns out it is nothing serious, just a slight displacement of the occicles in the ears, that causes a disorder call Benign Paroxysmal Positional Vertigo. As written, benign is good, as oppose to malignant, paroxysmal means it comes and goes whenever, positional relates to certain positions or sudden movements of the head, and finally vertigo is what some of us may experience once in awhile if we stay in a position for too long and change to something else. I experience vertigos once in awhile, most of the time after I get up from the chair after sitting down for a long time. It is a disorientating feeling whereby my vision gradually starts to go purple, and the mind spaces out.

The occicles in the ears are sort of the body's GPS system, where it send messages to the brain to tell it if the body is standing up, lying down or sitting down. Thus the doc was explaining to us that my mum may have displaced the occicles in her ear during or after her facial due to sudden movements after a prolonged period in a position. The cure is actually very simple; no medications required. Just a simple exercise routine to do everyday, and true enough after she practiced it on my mum, she immediately felt better.

Good news all round. Yay. But that was not the only piece of good news yesterday. Right after we came out of the doctor's room, I received a call from a prospective employer. I had gone for their first interview last week, and was shortlisted for a second interview yesterday morning. And yesterday afternoon, they called me to offer me the position! Looks like my days of sleeping late and waking up late are seriously numbered. I have informed another prospective employer, whom I will prefer to work for, of this offer that I have just gotten. Hope they can expedite their interview process and oh-please-God offer me the position tomorrow.

A little faith goes a long way; imagine if you have total faith, you can achieve absolutely anything you desire. =)

The lyrics of this song resonates my sentiment exactly, and it is also a really beautiful song.

I Hope You Dance
Lee Ann Womack
I hope you never lose your sense of wonder,
You get your fill to eat but always keep that hunger,
May you never take one single breath for granted,
God forbid love ever leave you empty handed.

I hope you still feel small when you stand beside the ocean,
Whenever one door closes I hope one more opens,
Promise me that you'll give faith a fighting chance,
And when you get the choice to sit it out or dance.

I hope you dance, i hope you dance.

I hope you never fear those mountains in the distance,
Never settle for the path of least resistance.
Living might mean taking chances but they're worth taking,
Loving might be a mistake but its worth making.

Don't let some hell bent heart leave you bitter,
When you come close to selling out, reconsider.
Give the heavens above more than just a passing glance,
And when you get the choice to sit it out or dance.

Normally I don't like to embed youtube videos or songs into a post, will prefer to upload the song into vox, but have to make an exception this time, as the accompanied images and lyrics of this video are truly inspirational. Enjoy.

I hope you dance lyrics

Fortune Cookie Quote of the Day: "You get what you want through your charm and personality." Woots!



Tuesday, February 10, 2009

Be well.

Lately mum has not been feeling well. It started on Sunday, after she went for facial with my sister. Right after her facial, she mentioned that her head is feeling giddy, and will not be able to drive the car home. I did not think it was anything serious, probably just some heat trapped between her wig and her head that caused the headache, as her hair is beginning to grow. We asked her to take it easy and rest more over the next few days.

 

Things went back to normal for awhile, but the headache was still persistent, though not as serious as Sunday. Just awhile ago, she felt uncomfortable in her bed and started to perspire quite a bit. A wave of emotions and fear gripped my sis, and asked me to bring her to the doctor tomorrow. For me, I have been constantly praying for her well being, trying to be the altar of light for the family. But strong as I try to be, a sense of helplessness has crept into me. It truly hurts to see your loved ones suffering, and not being able to do much. I know she will be well, I must have faith; all I want to do now is to pray more for her.

 

Let her be well. Thank you.

Light

The darkness shant always remain
for in every darkness there is a light
but with every light there is a darkness
neither can strive without the other
for darkness is never darkness without light
and light is never light without darkness
with the essence of both we may find ourselves
no matter how dark we are there is always a light.

 

Fortune Cookie Quote of the Day: "Every artist was once an amateur."



Tuesday, February 3, 2009

Life is an attitude.

I took this from a friend's blog, who attended a course titled "Life is an attitude" some time back. Here are her thoughts;

 

Attitude. What kinda attitude do we all have?
The heck-care attitude? The bo-chap attitude? The Kiasu, kiasi, kia-bo attitudes? Positive attitude? Negative attitude? Everyone of us can display any kind of attitude. Why we show attitude, be it good or bad, is largely due to our perception of things. How we interpret and how we choose to react to it.

We all know the logic of how we can choose to be happy or sad. We can choose to look at one thing positively or think the worst of it. We can all choose to smile at something or cry over it. To let go or bear grudges.

One of the many things I took from this course:-

TECHNIQUES TO STAY POSITIVE

Here are some techniques you may wanna try?

  • When you meet a friend, instead of asking 'how are you doing?', ask them to tell you the bright spot of the day?
  • When anticipating what lies ahead in a day, think about the good things that can happen.
  • Refuse to worry about those negative elements in your life that you an do nothing about.

The course objective is to help working adults look at things beyond our control from another angle. To teach working adults that we can be happy even when things going wrong. To remind working adults that WE CAN CONTROL THINGS. For things we CANNOT CONTROL, do not control. Do not even think about it.


Same logic applies in life. I learn to dump all those negative thoughts or move away from people who possess negative energy. If a friend is out to hurt you by saying mean things or treat you badly, why keep such a friend? In the first place, that person may not have treated you as a friend, right? Instead of feeling sad and hurt, dump this friend because we are all worthy of friends who care and love us, not hate and wanna hurt us. :) So we control what kinda life we want. A happy life with people who loves you, or a miserable life surrounded by mean and hostile people you so-call friends? You decide.

 

End.

 

Fortune Cookie Quote of the Day: "The person who masters change, masters happiness."



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